If you have managed to enjoy some time away, welcome back, and I hope all our young people are ready for a new term at school, college or university. How time flies. I trust that those who waited so long for exam results received the ones they wanted and needed.
As we move into the Autumn months of the year, there is so much to look forward to and consider. One really important issue that we need to think about is the future of our magazine in its current form.
We have been so fortunate to have a really great magazine for many years now, and sometimes we forget that it takes a great deal of time to produce and to maintain every month. For that we are indebted to our editor Chris. Then there are those wonderful people who deliver it each month to many of you. But we would like to find out if it is still what you all want. We are discovering that there are always a number of copies left over each month, and we are in desperate need of someone to be responsible for the advertising that is included in it. We thank Richard who has been doing that job for some time now, but due to work commitments he is unable to continue. Although the magazine is just about financially viable at the moment, it may not be long before we are running at a loss.
So that we may know your thoughts, there will be a short questionnaire at the back of each church, please do take a moment or two to fill it in. We are aware that we now live in a more technological society than 10 years ago, we communicate with each other in so many different ways. So you may feel that you would prefer to find out things on the web site, this could be set up to alert you of all upcoming events and news, a bit like the parent mail setup that the school has. Or you may really enjoy receiving and then looking through the magazine as it is delivered. Whatever you feel, we just need to know so that the correct decisions can then made. Importantly, if you would like to offer your time and talents to help maintain the magazine, if that is what is desired, then please do let us know.
Both our parishes have great websites, details of events and services are always on them, but we would like to find out, if you have the magazine, what you like/dislike about it, or any other suggestions that you may have. Please do not be afraid to answer the questions honestly. Many thanks in advance. Moira
Rest, Relax and Reflect. (July/August 2019)
Following the wonderful day on the 30th June, I take this opportunity to thank all of you who worked so hard, in the planning, the preparation and in the keeping of surprises, (for some it was not always easy). It truly was a great day. There are too many of you to mention by name, but I am sure you know who you are, I hope you are not completely worn out, I am aware of how much time was spent in the organising and bringing together all those who took part in the day itself.
Now, as these months of Summer continue it is time and okay to have some rest. A rest from the hectic rush of life as we all relax in the warmth of these longer days.
Rest is in fact really important for our well being, which is why holiday time is so precious, be it a couple of weeks with the family, or a few days away with friends. We all need it, in order to continue to give our best throughout the rest of the year. These next few weeks also offer us the opportunity to reflect, on all that we have done so far this year, on the issues that are to come, and perhaps most importantly what we are doing with our time and talents.
As I look back on my life, there is little that I would change. I may wish that I had developed wisdom a bit earlier, but otherwise I can honestly say that I am content with who I am and who I am becoming. As I let my thoughts go forward in time, I hope that together we will continue to let God’s church grow. I would love to see more and more of you involved in the life of the church as we develop new ways to worship and share God’s love with those around us.
Now that both our parishes have their new halls up and running, we will be presented with all sorts of opportunities to meet new people and to invite them to join us at our services.
I have to admit that I am not very good at planning too far ahead, life has shown me that there are surprises around every corner, and that what I plan, may not be what is actually wanted or needed in our communities. However, I am always willing to listen to new ideas from you, it may not always be possible to bring them all to fruition but please never be afraid to share your own thoughts.
As my ministry continues among you, my deepest desire is that I never forget I am here to serve you and the community. My ultimate vision for the churches is that they will continue to be a place where God’s love is indeed found and experienced in a life changing way.
So may God Bless you all, may you find time in the coming weeks to rest, relax and reflect with thanks, in all you do.
Hooray for Summer. (July 2019)
As another academic year draws to an end, many families will be looking forward to their holidays. Young people will perhaps feel a sense of relief that exams are now behind them, and they can relax for a while. And most of us find this time of year an opportunity to enjoy ourselves, to slow down, as hopefully the weather improves, and we can get out and about.
Don’t forget, there are lots of exciting events coming up in our parishes.
Cream Teas. Sunday afternoons.
These will once again be taking place at St. Peter’s Place, the church hall, from mid July until the middle of September. So if you are enjoying an afternoon walk across the fields, or have visitors for the day, why not pop in for some wonderful home made scones and cake. Look out for the posters and banners for further details.
September will be a busy month. On Saturday 14th, the Annual Ride and Stride will be taking place. Both churches are involved with this, so if you enjoy a bike ride why not form a team to enjoy a trip around some of our local churches. Or, if you do not ride a bike, you are invited to take a stroll around. Details of this will be out soon. Also on the 12th, Ryman’s, the large house and gardens just before you turn into Apuldram church, will be opening their gardens for the public to enjoy. This event will only be taking place on the Saturday so do put it in your diaries.
Apuldram Autumn Fair and Flower Festival. Friday 20th-Sunday 22nd.
Entitled, ‘All the World’s a Stage, this event has without doubt taken a lot of planning, hard work and involved so many from the community who have offered their time and talent.
Around the area there will be stalls, a pop up cafe, a children’s quiz, treasure hunt, and much more. The whole event marks 900 years since the building of St. Mary the Virgin church as a chapel of ease for the Bosham Collegiate in 1100 A.D.
The Flower Festival will be in the church and church grounds, and will be well worth a visit. Designed by Jose Pound and Tessa Cox, who have drawn an enormous amount of talent from many other places, will be around over the weekend to welcome you and show you the many displays.
The week-end will end with a special evening service of Thanksgiving, for the event itself and to mark Harvest.
Fishbourne will also hold their Harvest Festival on Sunday 22nd, with a service and bring and share lunch, this is always a wonderful day, we have so much to be thankful for, and this event helps us to support those with little or now food in a very practical way, so do pop this date into your diaries as well.
Looking a little further ahead. On October 6th, we will be having a special service to give thanks for Grandparents and children. This will be for all those who may have a special role in the life of our young people, so you do not have to be a biological grandparent. So many Grandparents do so much for their families, and so we thought it would be great to celebrate this. Again more details to follow, but don’t forget, all you young people, bring your grandparents, or those you view in the same way, to church.
From the Rectory. How time flies. (June 2019)
Saturday July 2nd 1994 was one of those glorious hot summer days. While many others were perhaps enjoying a trip to the beach or lazing in the garden. I along with some great men and women, queued up outside Chichester Cathedral, ready to go into a service during which we would all be ordained Deacon by The Right Revd. Dr. Eric Kemp.
The Cathedral was packed with our families and friends, and I have to say that when I entered the door I was more than nervous.
We knew what we had to do, but I confess that I had little understanding as to what ordination would mean for me and my family. And even after 5 years of training I could not quite work out how I had got there. Suffice to say it was a wonderful service with much joy and laughter, and so my ministry began in Ifield near Crawley.
The Revd. Canon David Parker was my incumbent, (my boss), and I was fortunate to be part of a team ministry with some wonderful colleagues who taught me so much for which I am truly grateful.
A couple of years later I moved to a new parish to take up a stipendiary post, (now I would be paid). In a nutshell, the rest is history.
This year I celebrate my 25th anniversary of ordination, 25 years, all in this diocese of Chichester, and I wonder where on earth did the time go.
I have been privileged to share in the joys and sorrows of so many wonderful people. I have laughed with them, cried with them, listened to the most amazing life stories and they too have each taught me so much. The very thought of being a parish priest had never crossed my mind during my younger years, I was never convinced that I was the right sort of person. But here I am, still making mistakes, and still getting a few things right. God undoubtedly has a great sense of humour.
To mark this occasion, there will be a special service on the 30th June, 11.00 a.m at Fishbourne church, followed with a bring and share lunch in the hall. I am delighted to be told that David Parker will be coming, and that he will preach. I’m also a little nervous as he knows what a pain I was all those years ago.
When I reflect on my ministry, I realise that it only makes sense and has value, because of the people around me. And so I hope that many of you will be able to come along to the service, or just to the lunch, so that together we can celebrate that with God all things are possible.
Our paths may only have crossed briefly, perhaps at a funeral, baptism or wedding, but I would love to see you, and say thank you to you, for helping me to understand what ordination is really all about.
When I was first ordained, I thought I knew it all, that I had all the answers. I have since discovered that I know very little, and that as each year has passed I have had to surrender more and more to God, and rely on Him.
Thank you for being part of our parishes, thank you for your patience and friendship, and for allowing me to be part of your lives.
I won’t say, ‘here’s to the next 25years’, as retirement will come along just before then.
May God Bless you all, and I really do hope you can come and join in the fun. Moira
It’s always Better together. (May 2019)
Just before Lent began, some 30 people from our churches signed up to use the book, 40 days of Reflection on the Beatitudes, written by Stephen Croft. A little book for the weeks of Lent. There has been a lot of good feedback with comments ranging from, ‘how easy the book was to use’, to ‘I have learnt so much from it’.
The house group that meets at Barbara Rycroft’s certainly enjoyed using it, and here is an abstract from what they wrote.
‘THIS IS A SMALL BOOK WITH BIG IMPACT.
Each day is clearly set out, consisting of a Bible reading, reflection on the reading, a prayer and some action to take. It was different to anything else we have studied before or during previous seasons of Lent. It is short and to the point. By studying it each day individually, and then coming together on a Wednesday for discussion, has certainly encouraged some interesting and lively debate.It has given us an excellent Lenten journey to expand and understand the teachings of Jesus and the Christian Faith. More importantly how to apply them to our everyday life’.
It is always good to know if a recommended book has been of use to people, and there was something very powerful and moving in knowing that so many were reading and reflecting on the same thing each day during Lent. So thank you to all of you who took on this challenge.
Looking ahead, I would now like to encourage as many of you as possible to join me in using another little book, this time between Ascension Day, 30th May and Pentecost the 9th June. This book is focused on prayer, it is a national initiative encouraging us all to pray: ‘Thy Kingdom Come’
It will offer us easy to follow short services of Morning, Evening, Day and Night prayer, (you do not have to do them all), and this book will introduce us to, and encourage us with a daily rhythm of prayer. You can pray by yourself, with a friend or within a group, there is no right or wrong way to pray. Ultimately, this little booklet will lead us to pray for those who do not yet know God, those people that we know and love who are searching for meaning in their lives. The cost of this book starts at £1.99, but the price will come down the more we order. So if you would like a copy, do please add your name and contact number to the list at the back of church.
There is no doubt that if for those eleven days a great many people are praying the same thing, amazing things will happen around our communities, and our prayers will also be joining those of hundreds of people throughout the country. So let’s do this book together as well.
May God Bless us all in the weeks to come.
New Life is Bursting Out Around Us. (April 2019)
Spring shows what God can do with a dark and cold world. Easter reveals what God has done, and continues to do with a broken world. Through it He offers New Life and lasting hope to all.
As April begins, we cannot but be aware of the beauty of the created world bursting around us. And during these next few weeks we can once again, experience new life bursting within each of us as well.
Easter, with it’s promise of hope and deep joy is fast approaching, so please do join us as the drama unfolds in the coming weeks reminding us afresh of just how much God loves us.
Following the journey we have taken through Lent, we come to Palm Sunday, the 14th April, with services at 8.00 a.m. at Apuldram church, and 9.30 a.m. at Fishbourne. This day marks the beginning of Holy week, it is an invitation to now walk with Jesus through the coming days. We re-enact his triumphal entry into Jerusalem, when the crowds shout Hosanna to the Son of David. New Palm crosses are given out to all those who attend as a reminder to us to go all the way to the cross and beyond.
Then at 4.30 p.m, Messy church will be held in the church hall, and the question to the children will be, ‘which egg tells the story about Easter’. All are invited to come to this, and experience learning about God in an organised chaotic way.
On Thursday 18th we begin the drama which will continue until Easter Day. At 7.30 p.m. there will be a special service at Fishbourne Church, during which we re-enact all that took place when Jesus had His last supper with the Disciples. Feet will be washed, and bread and wine will be shared as we celebrate the lasting gift he gave to His church. There is no formal ending to this service as we return to it on Good Friday with a very special celebration of the Cross, at 2.00 p.m. again at Fishbourne church. We are asked to give just one hour of our time to reflect on the price that was paid for us, once and for all. This service is always well attended, but if you have not been before, I encourage you, do come along, for it is this day that not only leads us to the wonder of what happened next but makes sense of the whole week. Again there is no formal ending, but in silence we leave the church, and then wait until the great joy of Easter Day bursts into the world once more.
The day of Resurrection, a wonderful celebration, an awesome reality that Jesus did indeed rise from the dead, and is with us always. To mark this great occasion there will be three services held. An 8.00 a.m. and a 9.30 a.m. at Fishbourne church, and an 11.00 a.m service at Apuldram church.
Please do come along, and invite your friends, family and neighbours for some, or all of the above services, as together, on behalf of our parishes we celebrate with Christians all over the world.
May God give us all the courage and grace, to walk with Jesus this coming Easter time.
Let it go, Let God in, during Lent. (March 2019)
On March 6th ( Ash Wednesday) we begin the wonderful life changing season of Lent with a special service at 7.30 p.m. at Fishbourne Church.
The following six weeks are often a time when people try to give up something, like chocolate or alcohol, or take up something new, like reading the bible more, or spending quiet time with God. And these disciplines are great, for they help us all in our journey with God. So if you haven’t decided what you will do yet, there are still a few days for you to make up your mind. Whatever is decided on, it should enable you to focus on who God is, the price that Jesus paid for us, and the new life that is to be re-discovered at Easter.
Those six weeks are a truly wonderful time of the Church year, as they guide us bit by bit into the very heart of God.
This year, I am going to ask you to try something a little different, alongside your own choices.
At the beginning of Lent, we will be giving everyone a dustbin sack, (recyclable), which you are invited to take home, and then each day of Lent you are to put an item, perhaps of clothing or bric-a-brac, into it. This is not only a great way to have a clear out of items that clutter up our homes, but as each is placed in the sack, let us consider them as symbolic of what we need to let go of in our lives. What are the issues that we hold on to, even if we are not always aware that we are doing so.
This will take a bit of thought, and may not be easy as we look deep in to our hearts so as to discover what is there, taking up space that could be filled with God’s love and joy.
It may be that we have been holding on to a past hurt, a fear, pride, envy or even a lack of forgiveness of ourselves. Maybe we don’t have a great work/life balance or are worried about so many things. Whatever they are, we need to let go of them, bit by bit. And if we really work at this, we will discover a new freedom in our lives by the end of Lent, not only that, but we will also have cleared our homes of so many items that we no longer need.
Now you may have more than one sack, or take one for a neighbour, and then on May 18th we will be holding a impromptu JUMBLE SALE, with all proceeds going towards the upkeep of the church.
So this Lent, don’t be afraid to Let it Go, for it really will make a difference.
May God Bless us all, and grant us a Holy, Life Changing few weeks.
Please do remember to fill in a Church Electoral Roll form. This year the roll has to be completely renewed, so if you are already on it you must fill in a form again, if you are not on it please do fill one in, forms then need to be returned before the Annual meetings. Forms are available at the back of church, or can be found on Fishbourne Church’s website.
Jesus said, ‘Don’t be afraid, for I am always with you’. (February 2019)
By the time you read this, the church will becoming to the end of what is known as the Epiphany season. A few weeks following the Christmas celebrations, when we are reminded just how the baby, born in a stable was revealed to all the nations as God’s own Son. This was no ordinary child, but God himself, who entered our world so that we would know how much He loves us.
We began on the 6th January by listening to that well known reading about the visit of the wise men, (the Magi), and the gifts that were given. As it was read this year, I was struck by one aspect of it, an aspect which is often overlooked and one which I had not really thought about before.
The story tells us that when King Herod heard about the birth of this child, he was very afraid, so afraid that he did not go with the wise men to visit Him, but asked them to come back and tell him more.
And we know, this emotion of fear was behind the terrible choices he made and the dreadful things he then did.
Fear is a very real human trait, we all need to feel it so as to keep safe, but it should not hold us back in our lives, or direct the way we live.
We can all, young and not so young, be afraid to try new things. People may laugh at us, or we might think they are better at it than we are. And so we hold back.
There are many terrible things going on across the world, and I believe that so many of the actions and choices that are made, are born out of fear. Nations can be afraid of other nations, and we only need to listen to the news to hear about the fear that is being spread about Brexit. Whatever the rights or wrongs of the decisions that are being made, we need to pray that those who are making them are not a product of their own fears.
During my time here in Fishbourne, I have watched a lot of people grow in the most wonderful ways, when they have faced their fears. Some who have been asked to take part in the worship by reading or leading the prayers, have initially responded with ‘ oh no, I can’t do that’, but with encouragement they took those first steps, and their confidence grew. It really has been a privilege and a delight to watch.
The weeks of Epiphany challenge us all to face our fears, whatever they may be. Some may try something new, others will encourage, and still others will hopefully say ‘yes’ rather than ‘no’ to help make our churches thrive in wonderful ways.
For we are never left alone, so don’t be afraid like Herod, we are all far more capable than we realise. So as we embrace this New Year, a year when we are asked to respond to what God is asking us to do, let us encourage one another to take that first step, and so discover new confidences and joys, born out of the realisation that the baby Born at Christmas truly is the Son of God.
HELLO 2019 (January 2019)
Well here we are once more, on the brink of another New Year with all it’s hopes and dreams, worries and fears.
For many this is a time for making changes to their lives in the form of New Year Resolutions. For others the future may seem uncertain as the world about them changes so quickly.
I believe it is an opportunity to once again look at ourselves, to acknowledge that each one of us is wonderfully made by God, that we are unique, and we do indeed have our own special gifts and talents.
Bishop Martin, the bishop of Chichester has called for 2019 to be the year of vocation, a time when we can all learn what it is that God wants us to do with our life.
It is often thought that they only people with a vocation are those who are to be ordained, ( a vicar), or those who are doctors, nurses, teachers or care workers.
That is not so, yes people are set aside to do a particular task within the church and in society, but we all have a vocation to be the people of God, and that requires us to play our part, both within the church and within the community we work and live in.
But how do we go about finding out what we are meant to do with our lives. What is our particular vocation.
We only discover it by getting to know ourselves, by being aware what we are good at, and how that can be used for others.
We may not always have a choice about which paid job we do, but we do have a choice about what we do with the rest of our time.
Some people are called to lead in different ways, but so many others have a very important vocation to live out, without them, those who lead would fail.
Some do it quietly behind the scenes, others are more visible. But all are so very important for our lovely churches to grow and reflect further the Love of God.
Ultimately a vocation is about our response to God’s love for us. It is a willingness to give of ourselves without expecting any reward. It is about discovering that the more we do for God’s church and His world, the more we want to do.
Your church needs you, to pray, to care, to sing and to encourage, it needs people to share God’s story, to welcome others and look after the building and it’s contents. There is so much already done by many of you, but so much more to do.
So this year, yes let us pray that people within our church will respond to God by offering themselves for ordination, but let us also pray that each person will offer their own special talents so that our churches keep on thriving.
CHRISTMAS IS COMING. ALL ARE WELCOME. (December 2018)
By the time this goes to print, most of you will be well into the busyness of preparing for Christmas. It can all be rather overwhelming, and very exhausting. So please, do take some time out from all of that and join us for the special services that will be taking place this month, listen again to the greatest true story ever told, sing the well loved carols, and receive God’s gift of Love, offered to us all.
Carols by Candlelight, this popular service will be held in both our churches (Fishbourne and Apuldram, one will be led by me, the other by the Revd. David Hider), on 16th December at 4.30 p.m., people of all ages are welcome. We will hear of how the events of that first ever Christmas unfolded, who it was who received the message of this royal birth first, and there will be joyful carol singing. This event is always well attended, so do arrive in good time.
Beer and Carols, this year this event will be at the Dell Quay pub, on Saturday 22nd, it promises to be a real community fun time. All ages again are most welcome to come along, please do arrive at about 4.30 p.m.
On Sunday the 23rd December the ever popular CHRISTINGLE service will take place in Fishbourne Church at 4.30 p.m. Please note we have moved it a day earlier than in previous years.
Then, as a trial we will be doing something different on Christmas Eve. Over the last few years many people have said to me that they cannot make Midnight as it is too late, and that Christmas Day is difficult because they are either off to visit family or have family arriving, this has meant that a lot of people miss out on a Christmas service. Having asked several times how people would feel if a service was earlier, I received a resounding ‘yes please’. ‘our young people could come then as well’. It has therefore been agreed to have a Christmas Eve service at 9.00 p.m on the 24th, instead of the usual midnight. This will also help the many people who are expected to attend every service over this festive time, the wardens, sides people, servers, choir and organist etc. I’m sure you will agree we all need to look after these good folk.
Christmas Day. We celebrate the birth of Jesus with a service in each church, 8.00 a.m at Apuldram and 9.30 a.m. at Fishbourne, do bring your little ones with you, for they are invited to bring one of their presents along to show the rest of us.
Then please do note, as I will be on my post Christmas break there will not be a service on Thursday 27th, and on Sunday the 30th December, there will only be one service at 9.30 a.m., which will be held at Fishbourne Church.
I hope to see many of you at these services, and don’t forget to invite your friends and neighbours. May God Bless you all, have a blessed and peaceful Christmas time, love and prayers from Moira
WE WILL REMEMBER. (November 2018)
On the eleventh day of this eleventh month there will be special services in both our churches, to mark the 100th anniversary of the ending of the first world war. We will be joining our prayers and thoughts with countless others across the world, and you are invited to join us.
At 8.00 a.m., there will be a short service at St. Mary’s Church Apuldram, and then at 10.30 a.m. at Fishbourne, with the act of Remembrance taking place at the eleventh hour.
If you pop into either of the churches you will see the ‘silent soldiers’, almost invisible figures representing those from our parishes who gave their lives for our freedom. These figures may unnerve you, for they are there, but not there, and yet they remind us all, not only of those who served our country during the great wars, but also those who have been in conflicts since, we will remember those who serve in the armed forces to this day, and all those who have survived. We will also remember the great acts of service that were carried out by so many women who not only supported the men, but who also kept our country going during those terrible years.
During both our services we will listen to special readings, ‘The Soldier’, and ‘Flanders Fields’, wreathes will be laid, and the names of the men from our communities who are on the memorial plaques inside the churches, will be read out. It is hoped that some of the young people from Fishbourne School will lead the prayers, and then after the 10.30 service there will be a Bring and Share’ lunch in Fishbourne Hall.
Our services on this day are not to glorify war and violence, which sadly continues to this day. We hold them to remember, the countless young men from across the world, who died for their countries, in the hope that peace will be a reality one day.
We do this act of Remembrance within the Eucharist, when we remember that Jesus Christ died for all, I believe that it is when we remember Him, and allow his life to touch ours, that we can give real value and thanks to all who have given their lives since. For it is through the death of this one man that we learn how much we are loved, and how we can fully love one another.
So please do join us for either service, if you cannot make them, do come to the lunch, during which there will be some singing, music and readings, as well as the opportunity to look at some artefacts, i.e. letters, medals, photo’s, from the great wars that many have been willing to share with us for this occasion.
Awesome Autumn. (October 2018)
1.As summer ends and Autumn comes,
Days get shorter, misty and cold.
And in this spectacular season,
Nature’s beauty graciously unfold.
2.Trees get ready to slow down,
And in Autumn take some rest.
And show amazing colours of love,
That are all at their best.
3.Green fades away quickly,
And yellow and orange appear,
To show off their vibrant hues,
And warm-up their surrounding dear.
4.Sunlight and cool nights of Autumn,
Help leaves to turn orangey red,
And combine all things smoothly,
To add magic in season’s lovely bed.
5.And all this shedding and replacement,
Of leaves continue throughout the year,
And trees only shed leaves in autumn,
To prepare for another winter dear.
6.This is God’s spectacular display,
Of beautiful colours of the fall,
During which many changes occur,
Including yellow, orange, red and all.
This poem written by Seema Chowdhury sums up for me the wonder of this autumn season. A few months of the year when the created world seems on one hand to take a rest while giving us all a glimpse of God’s immense glory. One of the most uplifting things for me at this time of year is to drive along country lanes, under a canopy of tree branches which are displaying so many colours in their leaves.
And I am reminded that God’s creative work is forever ongoing. I am also reminded that although it may seem as if plants and trees are having a rest beneath the soil, waiting to burst into life in the Spring, they are in fact being fed and nurtured, getting ready for what is to come.
Our lives are a bit like that too, we need to rest, not in soil, but in God’s presence, to be inwardly fed by Him, so that we are able to rise to the challenges that are set before us. To be ready to bring forth to others the new life He gives us, no matter our age.
The challenge for us is to take the risk, and spend some time with God, speaking and listening to Him, allowing Him to refresh our souls during these Autumn month. So let each of us give a little time each day for prayer, and allow God to transform us, just as he continually transforms the created world.
“Hi, folks! It’s Lemon-Ted here again! (September 2018)
Teds, like me, have plenty of time to ponder. Indeed, sometimes, we spend whole days or weeks just pondering about things, life as we see it, mostly. We are good at pondering. And, holiday periods are especially good for it. Life is generally a little more relaxed, except in this house where my man elects to work much harder than usual for some reason or other (I shall never understand him!). In my ‘ponders’ (is that a word, I wonder?), I pondered what should be the thinking for life after the holidays?
My man says that some humans compare life to a race, especially to a marathon race (us bears hate athletics, by the way!). It seems that the year to the last summer holiday is part of that race of life and the year that is about to start is a continuation of that race. Apparently, it is all part of the training for the distance of however long life may be. Just like running which requires people to take one step at a time, every day is one further step forward into their life – cue the song: One more step along the road I go! Sometimes, I am told, marathon runners ‘hit the wall physically’ and are tempted to give up as they have run short of energy. Working hard in life can bring on the same feelings, especially when things do not always go smoothly. So, people have to be determined to do the best they can, to stay focused and keep going. Even us bears have to do this, especially when the weather is harsh and food is scarce!
Some of my ‘ponders’ are about people. There will always be some who fade from life and others who will become part of it. It is sad to lose touch with those who have been part of our lives, but it is a natural thing to happen and all part of travelling from the old to the new. But, it can be exciting to meet new people. Though, this is not always the easiest of tasks. Will they be friendly? Do they share the same interests? How am I going to remember their name (something my man struggles with these days, as you might have noticed!)? Us bears rely on our sense of smell when meeting new bears, both to see if they are friendly (or not!) and to remember them! But, I guess, it would be odd if humans went around sniffing people in order to make such a decision! My man says that making new friends is a bit like breaking in new shoes. (He is such a clever clogs! Get it?) It can be a bit strange and uncomfortable for a while. But, these difficulties pass and, with understanding on both sides, new friendships can be built.
So, my holiday ‘ponders’ have led me to two thoughts to share with you. Firstly, not to give up when life has been tough, not to fall into the trap to expect that life will always be straight forward. For everyone (even us bears!), stuff happens at sometime or other and needs to be faced. It is important to keep sticking at it. Secondly, just be ourselves when meeting new people (or bears!). It is us that they will have to deal with, not some invented character that is difficult to maintain. How we approach these things determines our quality of life. And, a positive one always brings the best outcome!
Until next time.
“Lemon-Ted” (Rev’d David Hider)
Summer’s here, ALL Change. (July 2018)
By the time you read this, many of you will be looking forward to your summer holidays, those precious weeks of the year when we can relax and have fun, so as to return to daily life refreshed and renewed.
It is also a time when many families face changes in their lives. Children and young people begin to prepare for a new school, college or university for the first time, or a new teacher as they move into a different class. So many changes, most of which are exciting despite a few nerves.
As I reflected on this, I realised that although many people will say they don’t like change, it is in fact happening in all of our lives, constantly.
We know that the passing of years brings about an outward physical change, but we can be unaware of the small, seemingly insignificant changes that happen internally. Each new day presents us with new experiences, some we like, others we do not like. Each one of these experiences, along with the many encounters we have with others changes us for the better or worse.
For instance, if we spend some time with a friend who makes us feel good about ourselves, a change happens deep inside of us. We do not leave that encounter in the same way we arrived. Likewise, if we witness unkindness, or a terrible tragedy, again we are changed. Just a little bit, often unnoticed, but changed we are, by every word we utter and every action that takes place around us, by every encounter we have with those around us.
As Christians we understand that we all need to change, so as to eventually bear the full likeness of Christ, for as the hymn goes, ‘changed from glory, into glory, till at last we see His face’.
So as we begin to relax for the summer, may we all embrace the changes we face, may we understand that those around us, do in fact enable us to become who we are meant to be. And may we also be aware of the affect our lives have on those we meet.
Calling all you talented musicians.
Many of you will have heard that Bernadette, our wonderful organist is leaving this area for pastures new in the Summer. And so we desperately need some musicians. You do not have to be an organist, perhaps you play the piano, or have a young person in your family who does. Or maybe you enjoy playing a different instrument. We have a great electric piano at Fishbourne Church, and it would be so great to have a few people who could play for us, perhaps on a rota system, helping us to make our worship great. Please, if you are interested, think you could help, and would like to know more, do contact Moira on 530198.
There is nothing ordinary about it. (June 2018)
I can hardly believe that we are almost half way through the year, where does the time go. It’s been a whirlwind of business and change, in the last few months we have continued to worship God, we have celebrated marriages, baptised several babies, and said farewell to loved ones.
We have also celebrated the birth, death and resurrection of Christ, as well as His ascension which reminded us of how Heaven and earth are united as one, Pentecost, the birthday of the church when we welcomed the power of the Holy Spirit once more into our lives.
All of these events were marked by the different colours that you see in church, week by week there was purple, red or gold, but now we go green, the colour which tells us that we are in the ordinary weeks of the year. If you pop into either of our churches you will notice a green Altar frontal in place, and it will stay there for the next few months except for a few odd days when we celebrate a special event.
So do we simply take a bit of a rest, or plan for the next Christmas and Easter, or can we be encouraged to use these coming weeks proactively. Green is in fact the colour of growth, and we are encouraged to reflect on all that we have experienced and consider what difference does it make to our lives as we allow what we have heard and experienced grow in our hearts.
What does it mean to us to know that God, the creator of all is with us, no matter what we face in life?
What impact does it have on us to accept that Jesus actually died for each one of us, setting us free from all that binds us?
How on earth do we comprehend the awesome truth that He rose again and ascended into heaven, giving us all the way to eternal life?
The next few months are in fact our opportunity to pause for a while, open our hearts that little bit more, so as to enable the Good News of Jesus Christ (the Love of God) grow more and more, in our lives and relationships.
There is certainly nothing ordinary about this time of year, it is without doubt life giving, challenging and very exciting.
And so, I encourage you, don’t be afraid to take some time out of the business of life, ponder the truth of the Good News, ask yourself the questions above, and allow yourself to be transformed by God’s life-giving grace.
Oh Nana, how cool is that!! (May 2018)
Many of you will know that my grandson, who is now five years old, never ceases to amaze me by how he sees the world around him.
During the Easter holidays I had shown him a picture of a red telephone box, and told him how, when I and his granddad were young, we would have to leave our house, walk up the road and into one of these to make or receive a phone call. Calls were always pre-arranged so that we would both be at our respective places at the correct time.
Thinking that Ashley would not be too impressed, (given that he is well up to speed with modern technology), I was surprised when he said, ‘Oh Nana, how cool is that’. Now, being aware that he has an amazing imagination, I suspect that he thought that if you entered one of these phone boxes, you could come out as a super hero.
However, he did make me think, the assumption is often made that young people are not interested in the past, but that is far from the truth. The young are in fact fascinated by the stories that older people share with them. They are delighted to here about what life was like, and I am sure there are many grandparents who have regaled their grandchildren with delightful tales of their youth.
One of the great privileges of my work is in being allowed to conduct funeral services for people. The stories I hear about the departed person are incredible, and I am reminded time and time again just how unique each person is.
All of us have a story to tell, and perhaps the most important one is about our faith, how much of a difference Jesus makes in our lives, and yet we forget to do so.
The church is often tempted to ‘put’ on a show, to be entertaining, but in doing so it can lose the beauty and wonder of its history. We should never underestimate the young, they can teach us such a lot.
So in these weeks after Easter, I encourage you to share your story of faith, your experience of different church services, and about how you lived before the technical age we now inhabit. For these things are part of your story, and others would love to hear them.
Please, can you help. Your Church Needs You. (April 2018)
Happy Easter everyone, Alleluia, Christ is risen.
As we rejoice together at this time of year, I would like to ask for your help.
On Saturday 21st April, we are going to give the Church and Churchyard a really good Spring Clean. Every week a faithful group of people Hoover, dust and polish the church so that it is always ready for use. As a way of saying thank you to them, and doing some of the jobs they are unable to do, I invite you to come along, even for just a short while, for some fun as well as work.
This event is for all ages, so please do bring your gardening gloves, dusters, polish and shears etc, and help give this beautiful place in Fishbourne a facelift. If the weather permits, there will be a B.B.Q as well as liquid refreshments.
At the back of church are some lists of the work that we need to do, so if you could put your name down for a job we will be able to see what could be achieved in just one day.
A wonderful group of young dad’s are willing to take on the more strenuous jobs that need to be done, which will be an enormous help. Paint will be supplied, but if you can bring any paint rollers and brushes that you have that would be a great help.
Do bring your friends and neighbours to make this a real community event. And if anyone has a vehicle that could transport the rubbish to the tip, that would be amazing.
Fishbourne church is such a beautiful building, in a very peaceful setting, many people visit it from all around the world. And so many find solace there, even if they are just passing by taking their dog for a walk.
I am hoping that the joy of Easter will spur as many of us as possible into action, as we tackle this Fishbourne Church event.
Thank you in advance.
Love Life, Live Lent, keep going (March 2018)
Lent is without doubt the most beautiful life changing time of the Church year, it is a journey which if we continue to the end enables us on Easter Day to proclaim from the bottom of our hearts,
Alleluia, Christ is risen; he is risen indeed, Alleluia.
But to keep going with whatever we try to take on during Lent, is much easier to say than to do. The world, life, our friends and families all need our time and energy, and sometimes the days go by so fast that this season slips away without us realising it.
To help and encourage us all, our two Lent groups are running during these weeks, one on Wednesday afternoons, the other on Monday evenings, please do not think you have left it too late, you can still join in with one of them.
Mothering Sunday is on 11th March, and special services will be held in both our churches. ‘Mothering’, in scripture requires sacrifice, courage, obedience and risk as well as love. And it requires far more than just biological mothers to take on its joys and challenges, and so on this Sunday we celebrate and give thanks for the ‘Mothering’ of us all. Please do join us and bring your friends.
As March rolls on, we will enter Holy Week, during which we will follow Christ to the upper room, to the cross, until finally we arrive at the empty tomb. Our services this week enable us to experience the journey Jesus himself took.
Palm Sunday is on the 25th, there will be services at normal times in both our churches, when we receive new palm crosses reminding us that we are asked to take up our cross and follow Christ.
Then on Maundy Thursday, 29th, we will re-enact all that took place at the first last supper. Feet are washed, we celebrate the gift of the Eucharist and the church is stripped reminding us of how the early disciples ran away.
Good Friday, 30th, picks up the story from last night, it brings us to the cross with a special service at Fishbourne church, when we are asked to give just one hour of our time. This service starts at 2.00 p.m.
And then, Easter Day, and we Celebrate, there will be services in both our churches, and I think this is the first time, that I can remember anyway, when Easter Day falls on the 1st April, so please, lets all come together and be ‘FOOLS’ for Christ. May God Bless you all during this Holy, life changing time.
Welcome to 2018, may we all believe in others (January 2018)
Happy New Year to you all, I hope you had a peaceful and blessed Christmas time. As we begin a new year I would like to share with you an amazing true story which I feel is encouraging to us all.
At the end of last year, I was asked to conduct a funeral service for a wonderful lady. I met with her adult children to sort out the details and get to know them a bit. As we chatted, the son, who was about my age, asked me if I knew a particular person, of course I did I said, (this person is member of our churches,). And then he shared with me, how during his time at school, this person who was a teacher there, had been an enormous influence on his life. ‘I am who I am today, because of this teacher’ he said, ‘because he believed in me’.
Then at the end of the funeral service, one of the grandsons, who was also grown up by now, said to the same person, ‘thank you, I too am who I am today, because you believed in me’.
It was so amazing that after all the years since their school days, they had never forgotten this particular teacher, and all because he had believed in them, even when others seemed to give up on them. Both these men had achieved great things in their lives simply because someone felt they were worth it.
This really made me pause for thought, wow, we never know how much we influence others, especially in the small things we do or say. We may not all be teachers but it was evident that the greatest thing we can all do is to believe in those around us, even if they get things wrong. We need to believe that they can do great things with their lives, and believe that no-one is beyond the grace of God.
As a new year begins, many people make Resolutions which quickly get forgotten.How about if we all make a resolution to believe, in God, in ourselves and in others, even if we will never know the enormous impact this could have.
2018 is also the year of prayer, and so I would like to invite you all, to say the Lord’s Prayer, just once a day, perhaps in bed, on the bus, or while waiting in a queue, this prayer says all we ever need to say, and who knows what effect it will have on ourselves, the community and beyond.
Throughout the year there will be opportunities for us to learn more about prayer, and experience it in different ways, details of which will be on the pew sheet and in the magazine. But lets begin with ‘Our Father……..’
May God Bless us all in the coming months.
From the Rectory (December 2017)
Dear all, as this year draws to an end, December promises to be an exciting busy month as we await, and prepare for the wonderful celebration of Christmas. Details of all the special events and services can be found on the pew sheet, the church services page and on the notice boards. You will note some changes to or cancellation of the some of the normal Sunday services, this is because Christmas Day is on a Monday.
As always, everyone is very welcome to attend some or all of the services that will be taking place this month, so do invite your friends and neighbours as we celebrate with well known carols and readings the greatest gift of all, a gift that is offered to the whole world year after year.
I would like to take this opportunity to say thank you to those who work so hard at this time of year. If it were not for the Flower arrangers/church decorators, choir, organists, wardens, sides-people, servers, etc, and all who prepare for and lead the services in both our churches, they simply would not take place. So thank you from us all, and I hope that the changes to services will give you a little respite.
It would be very remiss of me not to extend heartfelt thanks to Hillary Young who has given her time, energy and talent over many, many years to ensure that our wonderful magazine arrives in our homes. So thank you Hillary, I don’t want to say how many years you have been involved with the magazine, as it could give a clue to your age. But your encouragement, support and advice to us all has been invaluable, we may still need to call upon your wisdom now and again.
Finally, it is always important for us to remember those less fortunate than ourselves, and so this year, on the first two Sunday’s of December we will be collecting, hats, scarves, gloves, socks and warm clothing which we will deliver to the homeless. There will be a box in each church, so please do pop items into them if you would like to support us in this.
And may God Bless us, our family, friends and neighbours this Christmas Time.
Seeing God in the ordinary. (November 2017)
Since the middle of September some 21 adults and young people have been preparing for their Confirmation which will take place later this month. It is always a great privilege for me to be able to walk with others on this part of their journey in faith. And I have say, I learn as much from them as they hopefully do from me.
At one of the early sessions we were reflecting on the different ways we can know God, and how we can experience His presence with us each day. I shared with the youngsters how lots of people feel a real sense of awe and wonder when they look at nature, and how the created world reveals God’s beauty and majesty in so many ways. There is perhaps nothing more wonderful than watching the sun rise or set as it turns the sky into amazing colours.
Given that it was a lovely evening, I asked them to walk around the outside of the hall, and for each to bring me just one item that said something to them about God. Off they went with great enthusiasm. It was not long before they returned with a variety of objects. Amongst them was a blackberry-for God feeds us, a rose petal reminding us of God’s love, a brick which said something about God’s strength and how we are made strong with Him in our lives. But the object that really surprised me was presented by Katie Turner. With a grin on her face and with great aplomb, she plonked in front of me an ordinary plastic garden chair. A chair that I have to say had seen better days and was a bit dirty and weather beaten. Feeling rather bemused I asked her what the chair said to her about God, her answer blew my mind. In her own wonderful dramatic way, Katie replied, “well, when you feel tired or worn out, when life seems hard, you can simply rest in God”. And with that she slumped into the chair.
What an amazing way to look at an old chair, what depth of thinking and insight. Once again I was reminded, we should never underestimate the young. Their spirituality is so pure and deep, their minds are uncomplicated and in so many ways their hearts are wide open.
So when you next sit in a garden chair, or in any chair for that matter, remember, that you too can rest in God, for He will hold you at all times, especially when you are tired or overburdened. Jesus said, ‘come to me, all you who are weary, and I will give you rest’. Through the eyes of Katie, this rest is to be found even in a battered old garden chair.
So thank you Katie, as I said to you at the time, you along with the others, will do great things for God. and may we all see God in the very ordinary things around us day by day.
Life is so exciting. Embracing the future – (October 2017)
I can hardly believe it, my little Grandson Ashley has just started ‘big’ school. Where on earth has the time gone, it only seems like yesterday that he was brand new, now he is stepping out into the big world, and goodness me, he was so excited about it.
At just four and a half years old, Ashley had counted down the sleeps until the big day arrived. There were no tears, no fears, he simply could not wait to put his uniform on, run down the road and step into his class. He has not been impressed with the staggered start that schools now offer, but he is so proud to announce that he is now a BIG boy.
I’m not sure how long this view of school will last, but it has been a delight to observe how easily he seemed to embrace this next stage of his life. Although to be honest, life itself has always been so very exciting for this young lad.
As I reflected on how fast he had grown up, I realised that life, the whole of life is in fact about moving from one stage to another. The future continually opens up to each of us, like a series of doors that we walk through one by one.
But, are we as excited as Ashley about the new stages of life that we encounter, do we enter them wholeheartedly?, or do they sometimes pass by without us really taking too much notice. The answer I’m sure is most likely yes when we are young, new schools, first jobs, love and relationships can on the whole be wonderful experiences, and we embrace those stages fully.
But as we get older, the wrinkles and creaky bones remind us that we have already done so much, that there are perhaps more years behind us than in front, and maybe we fear what is to come.
Let us remember, that life is a gift, we may not have the energy we always had, but no matter what is going on in our life, we will always have something to offer to those around us, God’s amazing love. So let us all try to embrace the whole of life, may we find something each day to feel excited about, and may we never take life for granted.
Reminders from the Rectory – (September 2017)
Welcome back to all of you who have been away on your summer break. And may God Bless all our young people as they prepare to start a new term at school, college or university. Also a big thank you to those who led our services during August especially the Revd. David Hider.
As we move in to the final quarter of this year, there are lots of special services and events to look forward to.
September 9th is the date for the Annual Ride and Stride, both churches are taking part, and it’s not too late for more of you to join those already signed up. You do not have to go far, you do not even have to ride a bike, you can walk, further details are available in both churches.
Then on the 16th/17th September Ryman’s will open their gardens to the public once more. These are well worth a visit, not only to see the wonderful displays of shrubs and plants, but also to sit for a while and enjoy a cup of tea and home made cake served by the wonderful folk from Apuldram church.
Looking ahead to October, on the 1st, Apuldram church will hold their annual pet service and celebrate Harvest at 2 p.m. All pets are welcome to bring their owners, so do join us as we give thanks for all the love we share with them.
Then open the 8th October, Fishbourne will have their Harvest Festival service, with a wonderful bring and share lunch afterwards. More details will be on the pew sheet.
We will have special services on November 12th to mark Remembrance Day as we pay tribute to those who paid the ultimate price for our freedom.
Later in the month, on the 19th, Bishop Mark will be at Fishbourne church for our confirmation service. Those of you who are preparing for this event, please do try and attend church services as often as you can so as to further understand the joy of worshiping God as part of the church. Confirmation classes will begin on September 17th, 4.00 p.m in Fishbourne church, and run most weeks until 5th November.
Apuldram will be having a special service for the ‘Laying up of boats’, more details re dates and times to follow soon.
And then finally, for those who are hoping to apply for a place at Bishop Luffa school for your young son or daughter, please make sure that you understand the criteria, and if you are hoping for a church support form from me, we look forward to seeing you and your young person at church as often as possible.
Love and prayers, Moira
From the Rectory – (July 2017)
Well goodness me, I can hardly believe that we are over half way through 2017, where has the time gone.
As many of you begin to look forward to the summer break, and hopefully a well-earned holiday, I would like to take this opportunity to say Thank you to those who work so hard at the many social events that are held in each parish.
Just recently, Ryman’s were open once again, and the good people of Apuldram church made and served tea and cake to the many visitors. This event is always a great opportunity to meet new people, and to sit and simply relax in the wonderful garden. Apuldram church also hosted a wonderful concert in June, a fantastic selection of music was provided by David Russell and Terry Stanton. I am not sure how much was raised exactly, but I know it was over £1000. So thank you David and Terry for giving your time and giftedness, and to all the people who attended, it really was a truly perfect evening.
Fishbourne Church and school have just had their annual fete, and what an amazing day that was. Such a lot of work goes into the planning, organising, and running this event, but every year it is a great success. This year the sun shone brightly, and very warmly, and people generously spent a lot of money. Again I am not sure of how much exactly was raised, but the figure at the moment is over £6000. If you were there on Saturday you will have heard that the school will buy new stimulating play equipment for the children, and the church are putting their part towards a new heating system, which may sound a bit odd in the middle of this heat wave, but winter will arrive all too soon.
Events such as these are so important for our communities, because they draw people of all ages together and allow us to relax and enjoy ourselves.
And there is more to come. Ryman’s will be open again later this year, and wonderful Sunday afternoon cream teas will be served in Fishbourne church hall throughout the weeks of summer. Do look out for the posters advertising both of the above. Two of the cream tea afternoons will be in aid of St’ Wilfred’s hospice.
And finally, looking a little bit ahead, in September, the annual ride and stride will be taking place. This is a diocesan event, and involves people riding around, or walking if they wish, to as many churches as they can manage. They get family and friends to sponsor them, and the money raised is shared between the local church and the Churches Historic Fund, which benefits beautiful old buildings like our own. Do listen out for further information, and do join in on the day, either by riding round on your bike, or perhaps offering to serve a refreshing drink to those who will visit our churches from across Sussex. It would be great if Fishbourne could reclaim the team trophy this year, so we are hoping a lot of you will sign up.
Social events are crucial to the life of any church, it is so important to play as well as pray together, so once again, to those who work so hard at organising each one, thank you on behalf of us all.
On this rock I will build my church – (June 2017)
Fishbourne Church has as many of you will know two patron saints. St Mary and of course St Peter.And you may well ask, what is a Patron Saint and why do we have them. In a nutshell, it is a saint chosen to be the special ‘intercessor’ in heaven for a particular place or organisation, such as a parish church, cathedral or hospital. In fact there are patron saints for just about every aspect of life from actors, dentists, musicians, to nurses, refugees and even the weather.
St Peter was the man on whom Jesus said he would build His church, the one who was given the keys to the kingdom.
Now when we think of the Saints, we imagine them to be very holy perfect people. But this is not so. If you read through the New Testament you will come across a great deal about Peter, much of which depicts him as a man who was unsure, a person who could be rash, irritable and at times for too hasty for his own good.
Yes, Peter is a great encouragement to us all, yes he fell short, yes it seemed as if he really did not understand Jesus very well at all and ‘let’ Him down by denying that he knew Him. But Peter was also gentle and firm, a man of great loyalty and love.
It’s quite incredible really, that the man who was a fisherman, married and not well educated would be chosen by Christ to build the church of which we are a part of to this day. Despite his somewhat wobbly start, peter was the one who addressed the crowds at Pentecost and worked miracles in Christ’s name. he refused to be silenced by the Jewish council and went on to admit the first gentile to baptism.
He encourages us to understand, that in Christ we can all do amazing things, and we are privileged to have him as one of our patron saints for Fishbourne. Many parishes hold what’s known as a patronal festival, an occasion of celebration to honour the Saint of their church.
And so, this year, on Sunday 2nd July, there will be a special service at Fishbourne, this service will involve and include the people of Apuldram and will be held at 11.00am. After the service we will have a lovely shared lunch in the hall, where there will be games, fun and hopefully lots of laughter.
So please do join us on this day, bring your family and friends as we give thanks for our patron saint, who not only intercedes on our behalf, buy encourages us even when we get things wrong.
For on this Rock, our churches are built.